spacelordmother wrote:For people who got gear: how did your families know what to get? Paying attention, good guessing, on your list?
Amazon wish list. My gift wants are always very particular, and my family never has any idea what I'm talking about, so a direct link avoids any confusion.
pd~ wrote:I have a very particular set of gift wants. Wants I have acquired over a very long career. Wants that make me a nightmare for people like you.
^ Couldn't get beyond that enough. Weeks of stressing and organizing and back and forth and crisis and drama to organize a single dinner... But again, knowing your situation Odontophobia, I feel a little bit petty.
spacelordmother wrote:For people who got gear: how did your families know what to get? Paying attention, good guessing, on your list?
Amazon wish list. My gift wants are always very particular, and my family never has any idea what I'm talking about, so a direct link avoids any confusion.
I'm in the same boat which is why I asked. It's just that I'm caught in this feeling that gifts shouldn't be asked for (no offense meant to anyone) so when people ask I always say "nothing." I would much rather get nothing than something given for the sake of "it's the holidays I have to." I guess I was just wondering out loud if people had really interested/astute family and friends. Am I a dick?
Well. ILFSS is pretty much the only gift I get that I don't clearly point to. But it's also because I very much dislike having things around that I don't need: clutter is a pain in the ass. So I'd rather doctor the gift giving a bit as I pretty much only get gifts wether for the solstice or for my birthday from my mother. The rest is an occasional grandma check or book, which I'm a lot less peculiar about than music gear or cycling/sports stuff or tech stuff (you're probably as much of a nerd as I am so you get it) or even clothing (sizing and style). So I guess it works
Wishlists can fail too. That is first hand experience.
The best gifts are the ones that the person didn't know they needed. Like, before my sister got me pineapple pants I never knew they existed
Cydonia wrote: Too bad no one here is interested in talking about "gear"
BossMann73 wrote:I didn't insult it......I "curated" a "different aesthetic.".
John wrote:I love how this forum has the GDP of Switzerland in pedals but the collective value of everyone's patch cables is less than the change in my couch cushions. And I don't have a couch.
I am the one liking pineapple themed clothes D'arcy. If I were to get you pants I'd get a pair with tiny colorful socks on them
Cydonia wrote: Too bad no one here is interested in talking about "gear"
BossMann73 wrote:I didn't insult it......I "curated" a "different aesthetic.".
John wrote:I love how this forum has the GDP of Switzerland in pedals but the collective value of everyone's patch cables is less than the change in my couch cushions. And I don't have a couch.
Chankgeez wrote:
We should have a game show à la Name That Tune
Inconuucl: I can shoegaze that tune with 5 pedals.
other contestant: I can shoegaze that tune with 4 pedals.
Inconuucl: I can shoegaze that tune with 3 pedals.
other contestant: OK, shoegaze that tune!
Inconuucl: