I get bored with girls quickly

[plhogan]

No

[unownunown]

Are you one of those guys from Jersey Shore?

Just saw this. No, I'm not.

As much as I hate the show and the whole Jersey phenomenon, guys could learn a lot about how to deal with women from them. Separating the wheat from the chaff and seeing past the hair gel and superficial shit to get to the real matter at hand (like their demeanor or their confidence) is the tricky part.

huhhhhhhhhhh

[Blackened Soul]

I just find most people in general boring, myself included.

[Gearmond]

date a girl you can't stand, but keep trying to find something to like about her.

that'll last ya.

[Caesar]

Tim, you're a douche. Don't reproduce. You're not worth anybody's time.

[Caesar]

And you're gay. Deal with it.

[theactionindex]

[Astricii]

If you can figure out what it is you're hung up on, you can probably figure out an easy way around it. Assuming you want to, of course.

My standards are high. I want someone who is exceptional and refuse to settle for anything less. Sometimes it just feels like I'm being harsh and unfair. Not always, but sometimes (like now).

First thing. You realize that any woman were to read this and you'd instantly fall off their standards checklist too right? Perfection is one of those things that doesn't actually happen in the real world. it's built by people who sell the idea of buying houses and $10mil dollar weddings on credit.

it's a fairy tale. everyone Even the girl you secretly love are going to have things that you'll resent or not enjoy about them once you make that kind of deeper connection

Quick update sinceo I've been seeing my new lady friend for a couple weeks now. I'm really into her. Moreso than any girl I've dated in recent memory. I could see myself in this one for the long haul. Turned out I'm just really picky, which I knew already but it's nice to know that there are women out there that are worthy of my time. Nothing's official yet but I am excited about the future.

This is good. just remember what I said before. Liking women is easy. loving them is where it gets weird. Even the perfect woman will piss you off. just remember you're just as capable of doing something that annoys the shit out of them too. and you probably do it 30 times a day without realizing it.

[tim]

And you're gay. Deal with it.

You wish I was.

[tuffteef]

And you're gay. Deal with it.

You wish I was.

i have to agree im sorry
the first step is acceptance, of your homosexuality

[tim]

The more you call me gay, the less original it gets. If you're going to bait me into a flame war (for which I'm totally game), at least be original. Funny is good too. Possible topics: STDs, fetishes, physical deformities. The list goes on and on.

[snipelfritz]

Well good thing you had a bunch of people in dresses to help you and Mr. Lawrence out on '03.

Yeah, a Supreme Court joke(if you can call it a joke). Didn't see that coming did you? IDK, I just read the last couple posts and thought, "ARE YOU ASKING FOR A CHALLENGE!!!!!!!"



On topic, cute girls with boyfriends shouldn't be allowed outside. You talk to them and feel like you're making headway, then they're all, "I'll brb gotta get mah BF from work."

Euuuuughhhh

[Gearmond]

The more you call me gay, the less original it gets.

but the more true it is, obvz.

srsly though, you probz aren't gay.


just a manho or w/e

[Trifarce]

cute girls with boyfriends shouldn't be allowed outside. You talk to them and feel like you're making headway, then they're all, "I'll brb gotta get mah BF from work."

This. Feels bad man.

[tim]

Well good thing you had a bunch of people in dresses to help you and Mr. Lawrence out on '03.

Yeah, a Supreme Court joke(if you can call it a joke). Didn't see that coming did you? IDK, I just read the last couple posts and thought, "ARE YOU ASKING FOR A CHALLENGE!!!!!!!"



On topic, cute girls with boyfriends shouldn't be allowed outside. You talk to them and feel like you're making headway, then they're all, "I'll brb gotta get mah BF from work."

Euuuuughhhh

That's what I'm talking about. Way more clever than saying "ur gay." However, I had toGoogle it since I had no idea what you were talking about. I bet you remember it so well because you were there.

Your feeling about an interaction should never be dependent on its outcome. The only thing you should be concerned with is whether or not it went well, not whether she's single or you get her number. If it goes well enough, she might conveniently forget that she has a boyfriend.

As for an update, the lady's presently in Greece for her sister's wedding. She'll back this weekend if things go smoothly. Meanwhile, I've had multiple girls (some incredibly hot ones too) literally throw themselves at me while she's been gone. I've been in open relationships before, but from what I can gather about the new lady she would be quite upset if she found out I slept with another woman. Tempting as it was, I'm not going to do anything that might screw this up.