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Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 4:31 pm
by Psyre
I am in dire need of some ideas in which to rekindle a flame or re-dazzle a lady. Towards the end of this summer things definitely started taking a toll on us and now it just seems we get annoyed by each other. She is definitely an interesting girl, and not like any girl I have dated before, far more emotionally reserved and doesn't communicate her feelings all that well. She just got back to town for school and we are going to be seeing each other tonight, but there is NOTHING to do in this Private/Religious University town. I invited her over for dinner, in which I was going to cook but she declined (it was kind of a wtf moment :facepalm: ) Soooo anyone have any suggestions of universally fun/cute things to do?

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 4:43 pm
by futuresailors
Bitches love picnics. Plus, if she's the quiet type you don't have to actually talk. Just sit there and let her enjoy the leaves.
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Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 4:52 pm
by Chankgeez
Is there a coffee shop that has board games or something? I think that's fun.

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 5:58 pm
by Achtane
Strap-on.

Uhh...I mean, minigolf.

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 6:03 pm
by alexa.
Just don't think about it, go out with her, chill, have fun, be yourself, if it doesn't work out - whatever; if it does, you'll have a great time.

Don't people go out and just stargaze for hours? What's up with that? 'Nothing to do'? Really? Be creative!

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 7:04 pm
by wsas3
How long have you been dating her, and is it very serious? If it is than i think talking to her about it would be good. If its not serious yet then yeah i wouldnt want to push any buttons.

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 7:07 pm
by behndy
showing up in a gas-mask always seems to start stuff off on the right foot?

i haven't dated in like 15 years so i'm useless for advice about this. stalking? i got you homie. but dating......... not so much.

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Sun Aug 19, 2012 7:14 pm
by kbit
wsas3 wrote:How long have you been dating her, and is it very serious? If it is than i think talking to her about it would be good. If its not serious yet then yeah i wouldnt want to push any buttons.


Second this and the star gazing idea. If something is up between you two it would probably be best to talk about it, and a relaxing/comfortable activity would most likely be positive and could create the space to talk things out.

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 9:50 am
by Fuzzy Fred
alexa. wrote:Just don't think about it, go out with her, chill, have fun, be yourself, if it doesn't work out - whatever; if it does, you'll have a great time.

Don't people go out and just stargaze for hours? What's up with that? 'Nothing to do'? Really? Be creative!


last time i was just looking up at the stars with some bitch, this other bitch came over and started talking about blowjobs

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 10:11 am
by excane
Fuzzy Fred wrote:
last time i was just looking up at the stars with some bitch, this other bitch came over and started talking about blowjobs


I hope you left the starry bitch and went home with the BJ bitch.

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 11:06 am
by Grrface
futuresailors wrote:Bitches love picnics. Plus, if she's the quiet type you don't have to actually talk. Just sit there and let her enjoy the leaves.
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Bingo. Also, go for a walk at the park. Not like a "let's exercise" thing, but just a nice way to spend some time together. It was one of my "I'm out of ideas" dates, and it ended up being how my now-wife and I got to know each other.

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 11:17 am
by CBA
Do you like her all that much?

If you're just so-so about it, then let it cool and move on. It's not worth the agony.


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Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 11:26 am
by metalmariachi

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 1:47 pm
by IEatCats
Depending on how long you've been in the relationship, I'd say to just have an honest talk about it.

I also don't know enough about her to give you much help here. I tend to go for very personal grand gestures. Just really think about what she likes, and what she likes doing, and play something to that.

You want to show her that you care, and that you pay attention to her. It's tricky, but I trust that anyone can do it, if they know their partner well enough.

But maybe this is moot advice. I'm not sure.

Re: Hey all you romantics!

Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2012 2:57 pm
by devnulljp
I'm assuming you've already tried a dirty Sanchez?