Hey all you romantics!

[Psyre]

I am in dire need of some ideas in which to rekindle a flame or re-dazzle a lady. Towards the end of this summer things definitely started taking a toll on us and now it just seems we get annoyed by each other. She is definitely an interesting girl, and not like any girl I have dated before, far more emotionally reserved and doesn't communicate her feelings all that well. She just got back to town for school and we are going to be seeing each other tonight, but there is NOTHING to do in this Private/Religious University town. I invited her over for dinner, in which I was going to cook but she declined (it was kind of a wtf moment ) Soooo anyone have any suggestions of universally fun/cute things to do?

[futuresailors]

Bitches love picnics. Plus, if she's the quiet type you don't have to actually talk. Just sit there and let her enjoy the leaves.

[Chankgeez]

Is there a coffee shop that has board games or something? I think that's fun.

[Achtane]

Strap-on.

Uhh...I mean, minigolf.

[alexa.]

Just don't think about it, go out with her, chill, have fun, be yourself, if it doesn't work out - whatever; if it does, you'll have a great time.

Don't people go out and just stargaze for hours? What's up with that? 'Nothing to do'? Really? Be creative!

[wsas3]

How long have you been dating her, and is it very serious? If it is than i think talking to her about it would be good. If its not serious yet then yeah i wouldnt want to push any buttons.

[behndy]

showing up in a gas-mask always seems to start stuff off on the right foot?

i haven't dated in like 15 years so i'm useless for advice about this. stalking? i got you homie. but dating......... not so much.

[kbit]

How long have you been dating her, and is it very serious? If it is than i think talking to her about it would be good. If its not serious yet then yeah i wouldnt want to push any buttons.

Second this and the star gazing idea. If something is up between you two it would probably be best to talk about it, and a relaxing/comfortable activity would most likely be positive and could create the space to talk things out.

[Fuzzy Fred]

Just don't think about it, go out with her, chill, have fun, be yourself, if it doesn't work out - whatever; if it does, you'll have a great time.

Don't people go out and just stargaze for hours? What's up with that? 'Nothing to do'? Really? Be creative!

last time i was just looking up at the stars with some bitch, this other bitch came over and started talking about blowjobs

[excane]

last time i was just looking up at the stars with some bitch, this other bitch came over and started talking about blowjobs

I hope you left the starry bitch and went home with the BJ bitch.

[Grrface]

Bitches love picnics. Plus, if she's the quiet type you don't have to actually talk. Just sit there and let her enjoy the leaves.

Bingo. Also, go for a walk at the park. Not like a "let's exercise" thing, but just a nice way to spend some time together. It was one of my "I'm out of ideas" dates, and it ended up being how my now-wife and I got to know each other.

[CBA]

Do you like her all that much?

If you're just so-so about it, then let it cool and move on. It's not worth the agony.


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[metalmariachi]

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If a bit of wine and music doesn't work you are SOL.

MM

[IEatCats]

Depending on how long you've been in the relationship, I'd say to just have an honest talk about it.

I also don't know enough about her to give you much help here. I tend to go for very personal grand gestures. Just really think about what she likes, and what she likes doing, and play something to that.

You want to show her that you care, and that you pay attention to her. It's tricky, but I trust that anyone can do it, if they know their partner well enough.

But maybe this is moot advice. I'm not sure.

[devnulljp]

I'm assuming you've already tried a dirty Sanchez?