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i know it's an unpopular view in the modern world/among the young, but you could try only fucking girls you really like/think you could be serious about. you fuck less that way, but it eliminates the various hassles and consequences associated with casual sex within your cohort.

dubkitty wrote:i know it's an unpopular view in the modern world/among the young, but you could try only fucking girls you really like/think you could be serious about. you fuck less that way, but it eliminates the various hassles and consequences associated with casual sex within your cohort.

Naw man fuck hella bitches and tell all your bros so they know how big your dick is.

dubkitty wrote:i know it's an unpopular view in the modern world/among the young, but you could try only fucking girls you really like/think you could be serious about. you fuck less that way, but it eliminates the various hassles and consequences associated with casual sex within your cohort.

Gonna have to agree here.

While I think every young person should go on a mini-bender of just fucking everything that moves (safely, of course) for a short time, that's the kind of thing that healthy people grow OUT of. Yes, it's fun to fuck a girl you've never fucked before. And yes, sometimes it's a thrill to fuck a total stranger. But ultimately that shit is not going to fulfill you. You'll always want to fuck every bitch within your immediate circle of influence. That will never change. Ever. So you need to find a person you like spending time with AND THEN fuck them. Don't fuck a bitch first and find out if she's cool enough to spend time with afterwards. You've got it backwards, assuming your goal really is to find a meaningful relationship.

Maybe this makes me sound all old and outdated, but you can actually go on dates with someone you think you might be into. And by "date", I mean hanging out with someone in public and talking to them to see if you are compatible. Like going to dinner, or maybe just chat for a few hours at a coffee shop or something. I do NOT mean typing up some "lol, C u l8t4" on your damn phone. Actually talk to the person...like, IN person.

I can tell really quickly when I spend time *really* talking to someone if they are going to be right for me (and that includes friends, business partners, etc). If you can get a person talking about things they care about and are passionate about, it is much easier to asses if there is relationship potential. It's also much easier to detect "the crazy" in any given lady if you do a lot of talking before you do the fucking. For some reason, fucking masks "the crazy". But chatting pulls it right out.

OK, so you need the pool noodle girlfriend! problem solved.

it kinda sounds like you're subconsciously freaked out by the idea of an actual relationship. maybe your last major relationship ended weirdly/badly or something?

i'm pretty much the same way. as soon as someone expresses interest in me i go running or otherwise (subtly) sabotage the relationship. i definitely also try to rationalize it by saying i have high standards and all that other shit, so i think i know where you're coming from. i mean, all that is probably a part of it, but everything's got some kind of personal component.

I love you guys.

Just had to say:

devnulljp wrote:OK, so you need the pool noodle girlfriend! problem solved.

culturejam wrote:For some reason, fucking masks "the crazy". But chatting pulls it right out.

my experience has been exactly the opposite

TroySanders wrote:Don't date someone until you actually know them and like them as a person. That'll help.

But isn't that the point of dating? To get to know someone as a person?

How well can you know a lady you haven't put your meat in? Not well enough, I'd say.

tim wrote:I get bored with girls quickly

BAAAHH! ?

Have you considered that maybe your feelings for these other people are preventing you from really getting attached to new people?

Step 1: Find people you don't get bored with
Step 2: !!!!!!!!
Step 3: Jizz