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devideva wrote:He's not going to come clean. I have known him his whole life. We're far from kids by now. I watched him do coke, then crack, then pills, now heroin. He has risen through drugs like most people do grade levels. What blows me away is his wife has no idea. She is totally blind.

Sorry bud,...but your friend is gone (my best man turned out to be a junkie had I known I would have had my actual best friend be my best man).

If you have a soul you will out him to his wife; hopefully before they bring another life into this mess.

I'm not trying to be an asshole,...but once a junkie; all concern for other people who do not enable their addiction ceases to exist. For sure this is a broad generalization,...but sometimes generalizations can be accurate.

It's done. I told him he was a junky, a cheat, liar and I no longer trusted him.

Needless to say he went on a rage and told me to kill myself and every other sordid and unimaginative thing he could drum up. (He's no drummer).

It's over.

Now I feel empty.

I don't need commiseration. (He was my best man). I am just drawing this thread to a close.

I met some good people here through this so not all a loss, I suppose. Thanks.

Sorry thats how things worked out but honestly, not at all surprised.
I think you did the right thing and cutting ties with the dude will save you a lot of hassle down the road.

warwick.hoy wrote:

devideva wrote:He's not going to come clean. I have known him his whole life. We're far from kids by now. I watched him do coke, then crack, then pills, now heroin. He has risen through drugs like most people do grade levels. What blows me away is his wife has no idea. She is totally blind.

Sorry bud,...but your friend is gone (my best man turned out to be a junkie had I known I would have had my actual best friend be my best man).

If you have a soul you will out him to his wife; hopefully before they bring another life into this mess.

I'm not trying to be an asshole,...but once a junkie; all concern for other people who do not enable their addiction ceases to exist. For sure this is a broad generalization,...but sometimes generalizations can be accurate.

I think you have to do this man. I would tell him he has a month to get clean and if he doesn't then you'll tell his wife. This will save his wife and potential child pain; the people who don't deserve it.

The wife thing is a bit of an issue. She hates me bacause he uses me and everyone else to blame why he is fucked up. He cheats on her. Gangbangs local skaggs. His exploits were funny when they were just him. But if I tell the wife, it opens a can of worms where I would become her infiltration unit through the front line of dishonor and infidelity and I can't do all that. Besides she's a total bitch. Truth is, I hate her too. They have no kids, he wants none. I am not gonna be a narc, even for him. It's just not me. Ain't going there.

But I would pistol whip the piss out of him. ... but he wouldn't get it.....

you can lead a horse to drink but sometimes it just bathes its ass

Time to cut the cord. They have their life, and you don't seem to want to be a part of theirs. You can't make some be who you want them to be. Let go.

And I've been on H, and I knew from the moment I did it that I couldn't do anymore because it was the GREATEST THING EVER.

yeah fuck it dude
the last friend you got thing sucks
but yer gettin older
you dont need some jerkoff sappin
the last bit of life you got left
unless you wanna get back into his drama
stay away from the wife too
be selfish on this one
shell figure it out when he flys off the handle
and just think
you aint gotta be there to lie to her for him when it happens
mmmm junk drama
god i miss it so

If I had to choose between heroin and 90% of the people I know, I'd choose heroin. The 10% that I'm hooked on are hella important to me.