nieh

[Jwar]

Fuck double post

[Casavettes]

dude, thanks so much, but you don't need to do that! honestly at this point, yes it sucks how this happened, in multiple ways, but i'm more worried that he isn't hanging in there than that this hasn't been finished up.

You won't take something from sodinero, and you've heard from nieh, but you still continue this smear thread. What exactly do you want? You can't claim to care about him while attacking him with this thread. Stop.

Ok firstly it's not sodinero's job to send spacey stuff. Nice offer but kind of missing the fucking there aren't you? Nieh owes him something. He has not received it. So he's keeping us all up to date so we know what's up. I appreciate it when people do this. It lets me know who I need to be more cautious off when doing trades. The list is getting longer and longer on ILF.

I think the only solution in these cases are to send the shit. That's it! He wrote on the 5th of March, today is the 15th. Ten days is enough time for either A) more communication or B) sending the fucking pedal.

I've never dealt with nieh, but have with space and he is very prompt. I would expect the same thing.

Morange get your head out of your ass
I agree with jwar

[space6oy]

thanks guys, glad you get this.

morange there's nothing wrong with my simultaneously being worried about the guy and annoyed that i haven't received what i'm supposed to have.

[magiclawnchair]

i have met nieh. i also have a cousin that suffers from schizophrenia so i understand what that does to a person. i see no problems with space6oy mentioning that 10 days later he hasnt seen the pedal/whatever nieh said was going out.
we like nieh and only wish him the best.

[space6oy]

again, thanks dude.

[Chankgeez]

we like nieh and only wish him the best.

[MSUsousaphone]

Natural consequences, fellas. Don't enable.

[morange]

Rawr.

When you care about someone, you don't ride their ass to get what they owe you. So don't pretend that you care, because this thread is a vehicle for ass-riding. Sure, accountability and all that, I'm all for it, but the disingenuous personal concern is vulgar. I'm sure he'll feel a lot better when he's banned from the forum.

[space6oy]

have you noticed that you're the only one with a shitty cranky attitude in this entire thread?
there can be duality to emotion. i AM concerned about him, whether you deny that or not, but i'm also annoyed that i've been screwed over until this gets finished up, if it ever does.

now please, for all of us, drop the preaching.

[nieh]

Rawr.

When you care about someone, you don't ride their ass to get what they owe you. So don't pretend that you care, because this thread is a vehicle for ass-riding. Sure, accountability and all that, I'm all for it, but the disingenuous personal concern is vulgar. I'm sure he'll feel a lot better when he's banned from the forum.

what? He hasn't been 'riding my ass' in the least bit. I owe him a pedal, that should have went out over a month ago. I understand that I was being rather sketchy, but recently had to put my personal life before anything else. I know, its shitty of me, but everyone else seems to understand but you. I am in no way trying to cheat him out of anything. and space, I promise it will go out very soon.

also an update on my condition, I got put onto an anti-psychotic which has helped a lot. The reason I didn't get it out when I said I would is because I forgot all my meds for 2 days and didn't sleep or eat. I had a bit of a episode while watching my girlfriends synchronized swimming show. I had hallucinations of bugs crawling all over me and biting me. I ended up scratching my arms until they were bleeding all over. being that this happened in public, it was extremely embarrassing for me. people from my school were there talking about me and referring to me as 'that crazy kid.' anywho, I also got the MRI results back. They didn't find any tumors or swelling, but they said they found 'abnormalities.' I'm waiting till thursday so I can talk to the psychiatrist about it.

and space, I really hope you can understand. You'll be getting a whole box of awesome pretty soon!

[space6oy]

dude i totally can. glad to hear from you. if you ever wanna chat about it, i've been through a medical mess myself. don't mind sharing that on here like you have. hang in there man!

[AxAxSxS]

I've got no horse in this race but thought I'd chip in to lend some support. I forget meds all the time. then I suffer. Painfully. Might be a good idea to get someone to help out and track what you take and when. I had my wife do that for a bit when i was on opiate painkillers for about 6 months. that crap made me forget everything. now I use my phone and set reminders. That's been working pretty well but I still forget to refill stuff from time to time. Never hurts to ask for help man. Sometimes it seems like it will hurt the pride but once you ask, it tends to work out well.
mojo and good vibes sent to ya man.

[MSUsousaphone]

The best input I can throw out is: Don't settle with just a doctor. It's pretty cool you're getting help early, so many people get brushed aside and don't get help until they've dug way bigger holes than late fulfillment on an ILF trade. But look into counseling, too. The unfortunate news is that at this time there is no medicine that completely takes away all symptoms of an SPMI and/or doesn't cause any side effects. A counselor can help with skills to alleviate some of the loose ends meds don't tie up. Generally, the earlier I get to my clients, the better. Be patient with the meds. It can be a bit of a guessing game as there are so many pills out there and they interact with different people in different ways.

I've been doing this for quite some time and two of my best friends are diagnosed with Schizoaffective Disorder. Feel free to PM me if you have any questions or anything.

[Dark Barn]

Rawr.

When you care about someone, you don't ride their ass to get what they owe you. So don't pretend that you care, because this thread is a vehicle for ass-riding. Sure, accountability and all that, I'm all for it, but the disingenuous personal concern is vulgar. I'm sure he'll feel a lot better when he's banned from the forum.

what? He hasn't been 'riding my ass' in the least bit.

[jrmy]

Just chipping in to wish nieh the best. I hope you get the care you need, man. Don't be afraid to speak up here - we're pretty much guaranteed to be more understanding than the kids in school, since our love of fuzz trumps all. And I'm really glad that this thread hasn't devolved into a lynching, and that both primary parties are being up-front and mature about the whole thing.