Would you or not?

[behndy]

yeah. also, if like Haki's talking about where the relationship is fucked and basically over, i see it. i would still wait until it's official, or if the dood's being a cock and not signing the papers it IS over...... but i don't really like people that cheat. i see it as a character flaw. and i don't know if i would fully trust that person not to slut butt around at some point with me.

lol. also, i'm a bit skewed more so against it because i've had about 5 years so far where i see my wiff about 3 months out of the year. and i have WANTED to fuck and cuddle and be with other people out of loneliness. so it makes me even more angry at people i know that fuck around. silly booters.

[univalve]

married chick
wants dick,
who are we
to deny?
plus, yr doing her
a solid

Yeah.
Married and two kids. Already happend. Several times. Oh gawd, that was good.

[excane]

My answer is yes... I mean, I'm not alone right??

...Isn't anyone else forced to prep the bull?

[tuffteef]

married chick
wants dick,
who are we
to deny?
plus, yr doing her
a solid

Yeah.
Married and two kids. Already happend. Several times. Oh gawd, that was good.

[Big Mon]

I wouldn't want to go near that situation with a 100-foot-pole, unless they were separated and openly seeing other people.

+1 and have, in fact been in that situation.

[bigchiefbc]

I wouldn't want to go near that situation with a 100-foot-pole, unless they were separated and openly seeing other people.

+1 and have, in fact been in that situation.

As have I, which is why I qualified it.

[GardenoftheDead]

Sleep with? sure. Have a meaningful relationship with? no.

[oinkbanana]

If she's married to me, I'd hope so! otherwise there's a problem.

[gunslinger_burrito]

Sigh. Allllllmost did it. But she was a good friend, and clearly wasn't happy with her marriage. Then they moved away, so there's a load off my back. Anyways, I have to agree with the "depends" thing. If the married person is so unhappy with their marriage so as to want to sleep with someone else, or they're slutty enough to do it and genuinely don't care, then they either shouldn't be married in the first place or it's time for a divorce. Also, I'm all about social darwinism and yadda yadda, so if the person in the marriage who is being cheated on had this happen, then they either weren't satisfying their lover enough, or they made a poor choice of mate, OR they're feeding masochistic needs or some other such psychological stuff.

I've never been married, but I recently had a very mild version of this happen. A girl I had just started seeing ended our "thing" by telling me she was too busy with school, etc....when in truth, she wanted to date a friend of mind in a nearby city. We're all cool now, but (while it sucks/sucked) I have the stance that if they are more interested in each other than she was in me, then what am I supposed to do about it? Sabotage my previously existing friendship? No thanks. I just tried to let him know that she fed me a line, and if she fools around on him, then I'll have to try and not be too hard about saying "I told you so."

[univalve]

If she wants to, i really See no Problem. Else she would have an intact relationship and wouldn't do it.

[psychedelicrelic]

Here's my initial thought. I would sleep with her if I had no ties to her husband. What I'm doing has no moral concern on my part. She would be the one to make a choice of cheating. As long as I'm not obliged to do anything but fuck her, I see no problem. I might be the donut but shes the one with diabetes. I'm just a hot peice of dough, i dont make choices for other people.That being said, I would try my very best to avoid any potential situation that would put me in danger. Try to calculate the odds of my ass being kicked or whether this chick is loco. But pretty faces can be deceiving and throw scales off balance.

But really these situations always come with more than "is it wrong" or not. It wouldn't ever be simple enough to be left with only that question. Do I feel for this girl? Do I want to be in a relationship? How did we meet? Those kinds of things...And ultimately, I would not know what I would do unless I was in that moment. But where I am right now, sitting on the toilet, browsing ILF on my phone, minutes away from nestling in my cold leather computer chair to browse the daily update on xhamster...yes, I would sleep with a married woman right now.

[dubkitty]

I'm just a hot peice of dough, i dont make choices for other people.

yes, but you make choices for yourself. it's not as if you just accidentally happen to wind up in bed with a naked lady. unless you have a much more interesting life than anyone i know

[behndy]

that...... is actually how i got the sexin's the first time. was at a YMCA sponsored river rafting retreat for kids at risk for being druggies or suicidal. i was (and still kinda am) oblivious towards grrLy advances apparently, and i woke up to a grrL that i thought we were just being friendly friends going down on me. then we had the sex then we kissed the first time.

YAY.

[psychedelicrelic]

I'm just a hot peice of dough, i dont make choices for other people.

yes, but you make choices for yourself. it's not as if you just accidentally happen to wind up in bed with a naked lady. unless you have a much more interesting life than anyone i know

I understand that my choices affect the other party, but of what's right and wrong, my choice has nothing to do with that. Im not potentially tearing apart a relationship, she is. And what defines accidental? If you mean ending up sleeping with a girl with out the intentions or any predetermined thought that I'm gonna have sex? Then yeah, I've accidentally wound up in bed with a few naked women.

[Josh Pelican]

If it involved Excane or skullservant, I'm all in.

ALL IN.