dealing with ex-bandmates

[MSUsousaphone]

Sex Accident is one pretty fucking solid piece. I like that one a lot. Hell yeah. I mean. It's all good. But that one sounds CD ready, already. I know it needs vox and stuff. But it sounds great, right there.

[behndy]

yay! super reassuring. please though, tell me if shit sucks. i'm a little nervous about being out there just the two of us. but it's been super fun doing arrangements to suit how we feel, not just to give the vocals their space.

....... i love good songs with awesome singers though.

[Haki]

lol. i think you already heard the 2 riffs that were the main jumping off points for each song.

Battle Bridges is Gin right? The song you weren't a fan of ...

[behndy]

lol. NOPE. but damn son. that's.... a little spooky.

the riff that's the main part of Battle Bridges is the riff that we were jamming as a three piece, trying to make work, some bullshit poppy wannabe 90's Chili Peppers crap came out of it and turned into the main riff i fucking HATED on Gin. so..... no. but.... kinda?

you WEIRDY. i LIKE YOU big weird GALOOF.

[Haki]

Gin just always felt like a Sables light version. Battle Bridges does a far better job of being its own song. The riff is still somewhat similar (to me, but I'm a big weird GALOOF), but let's just call that your STYLE instead.

[dubkitty]

so you HAD to wait to have an opening until i left the Bay Area? fucker

[behndy]

Fuck The Kitty Action Plan Phase 12 UNDERWAY.

[excane]

behnderz - I think the path to go down is just move forward and put the whole mess behind you. I'm not one for digging on someone (unless they REALLY fucked me over) but sounds like she's got a LOT of other issues going on. No name calling, just part ways if she won't have a sit down and be done with it.

If YT can't do anything (worth a shot to send them a msg) then just cut bait and start a new channel. If you build it, they will come. ALWAYS.

[behndy]

yah. it didn't end near as friendly as i'd hoped, but we have just been trying to cut ties completely. again, wish her the best of luck in whatever she pursues, these little snafu's are just that.... little. pho show, we already started a new YT channel (don't even want to fuck with any of the silliness) and i'm setting up a site so we'll either use that @whatevah for band email or the gmail acct i set up. going with a different name with Blood Party in it. 's all gooooooooooooood.

lulz..... i um..... just kinda said....... this whole thread was pointless. WOOT.

but it wasn't. 'cause all the woooooords and advicccccccce and happy touchy button tiiiiiiiiiiiiimes were MAD helpful. and pure awesome.

[MSUsousaphone]

Change it to Bloohd Party.

[D.o.S.]

Or, if/when you're in New England, Fahkin Blood Pahty... Fahkin Rite Gai.

I'll play keytar.

It'll work.

[behndy]

oh gawd. keytar.

*poo-shits all over self*

guhhhhhhhhhh.

[dubkitty]

Blood Party Girls. this would be especially good if all the band members are male, a la Sun City Girls.

[behndy]

lol. all good suggestions. i especially like Blood Party GrrLs.

we're sticking with just Blood Party though. it's grown on me. HARD.

[Waterpilot]

Looks like I'm a couple days behind on this one... Good advice has been given and I can't add much to it. Good you're movin' on though. She is what she is an will do what she does. Not much you can do about it except smile and move on. Sounds like she may like to feed off the drama and not giving her any may cool things down quicker. If they haven't already. What counts here is you though. And hopefully, this will all work out for the better!