the_carl wrote:Thinking about breaking up with my girlfriend, but I also don't want to do anything stupid. She's been a complete bitch for the past month, but I'm also pretty sure she's having issues with depression and refuses to talk about it or seek treatment. I mean, I understand if you're feeling down, I've been there too, but you can't just go and take shit out on me all the time and not apologize for it.
Hell man, I'm in the almost same situation. And she just doesn't want to listen.
I'm fucking bummed about it. She takes EVERYTHING I say and adds a whole plethora of shit I didn't even think about, let alone I would say anything like that.
Don't know. I would try to help you out, but I think the best thing would be for you to take a step backwards and see the situation for what it really is.
Maybe it's just me, but when things like that start happening, I tend to lose perspective and I have to chill a bit.
But I kinda doubt that I'm the best person to listen to for advice, cuz I stopped talking to her a short while ago and I asked my friend (her friend too) to try and talk to her, cuz she will destroy herself with that kind of thinking :/ I'm out of the game. If she changes, I'd love to hang out again.
Hell. The last few days when I think of her, I get a warm feeling in my tummy, so I guess that's not a good sign, considering the situation.
Sigh