Guys...guys.
Birthday Boy wrote:Velvet Hammer? Really? No respect here for faceless authority.
Velvet Hammer is no more faceless than I am. Or anyone else with an avatar or web handle.

It's the mod's username.
They're a valuable modding resource, and there's not a mod here that's overmodding. They're mainly tidying up and deleting old B/S/T threads. Need someone with more of a face? I use my name as my username--I'm fine with taking responsibility for anything a moderator does here. I trust them, period.
dubkitty wrote:censoring pronouns it utterly pathetic and unacceptable.
Inaccurate/incomplete summary, there. Censoring pronouns
that are used with the intent to insult someone, on a personal level, based on their sexual identity.
Can forum members start referring to you, or any other guy here, as she/her/girl? That'd be frustrating enough, even to someone who doesn't have a history of struggling to find acceptance of their sexual identity.
I imagine/assume that, for a trans person, being called the wrong pronoun feels about like being gay and getting called faggot. I don't want to go there.