Please Delete

[chuckjaywalk]

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[D.o.S.]

say fuck the lemons and bail?

[D.o.S.]

No man I don't know that's some rough shit. Sympathies. Have a couch if you get here.

[DarkAxel]

Hey dude

as someone who recently got out of an unhealthy relationship, I say this... this sounds absolutely shitty to me and to be honest from what you said you need someone to support you, not bring you down. I know we want to look on the bright sides and remember the good times and shit but sometimes that's just wishful thinking, you know? You deserve better, even if it means just being by yourself for a while. I felt similarly...

To me what you laid out sounds like options 1 and 3 are the best. From the adventurous, non-routine point of view and those romantic ideas how we all want to live, option 3 sounds like the deal to me. Get the car going, pack your shit and do an ILF couch tour, see where you stick

I'd do that or I like to think I would...

[chuckjaywalk]

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[DarkAxel]

if you ever need to talk, shoot me a PM or add me on FB (Honza Čapek)

[Eivind August]

Yeah, DarkAxel nailed it. If you go for option 1, you need to ask yourself why you'd want to do it. I mean, if you like your job and apartment and want to stick around, that is cool, you can soldier on. But I do get the impression that some new scenery and a change of pace might do you better. You're a good dude, and I'm sure there are other things for you to do out there.

Anyway, sending love!

[gnomethrone]

Get your car working man. The sea of couch is a cruel mistress.

[JonnyAngle]

The worst thing is to do nothing.

Do you enjoy your job? It sounds like it's just a job to you. What do you want to do for a job?

I'd start by getting your car fixed and getting a job you enjoy, not tolerate, whether in NY or KY

[MEC]

I'd say go for #1 as it offers the most independence/least dependency.
It will also give more stability until you decide what else you may want to do.

I'd get the court involved in the situation with your ex-wife.
Not only is what she doing shitty but it's also probably illegal.

[hbombgraphics]

Dude,
Here if ya need me,
Whole situation sucks but I know that whatever you decide you will have a ton of support from the ILF crew.

I also know you can get through this.

[JonnyAngle]

Mad support to the extreme!

[decomposing]

dude I hear you on this shit
so goodvibes
been in a rough patch for a while and the northwest is still changing
my last ex turned out to be crazy and tried her hardest to mess shit up for me
imagine that?
car = independence... to some degree.
so you can get the fuck out if you need to.
ever check craigslist for quick gigs to supplement things?
or temp agencies?
I've been wanting to make a big move and it's tough to line up everything.

[fcknoise]

I don't know if I have any solid advice for you mate, just want to say sorry man, and I hope it gets better. Always supporting through the internet. If you decide on couch surfing in the future and land anywhere close to here you'd have a couch

[PeteeBee]

Man. That's a serious series of really terrible situations.

I'll be the odd man out and say that the parents option can be a good one. Depends on the parents and your relationship with them, but having a chance to really get your shit ducks in a row without stressing about money all the time can be a huge blessing.