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Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 2:51 am
by MSUsousaphone
Sex Accident is one pretty fucking solid piece. I like that one a lot. Hell yeah. I mean. It's all good. But that one sounds CD ready, already. I know it needs vox and stuff. But it sounds great, right there.

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 2:52 am
by behndy
yay! super reassuring. please though, tell me if shit sucks. i'm a little nervous about being out there just the two of us. but it's been super fun doing arrangements to suit how we feel, not just to give the vocals their space.

....... i love good songs with awesome singers though.

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 3:09 am
by Haki
behndy wrote:lol. i think you already heard the 2 riffs that were the main jumping off points for each song.

Battle Bridges is Gin right? The song you weren't a fan of ...

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 3:11 am
by behndy
lol. NOPE. but damn son. that's.... a little spooky.

the riff that's the main part of Battle Bridges is the riff that we were jamming as a three piece, trying to make work, some bullshit poppy wannabe 90's Chili Peppers crap came out of it and turned into the main riff i fucking HATED on Gin. so..... no. but.... kinda?

you WEIRDY. i LIKE YOU big weird GALOOF.

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 3:20 am
by Haki
Gin just always felt like a Sables light version. Battle Bridges does a far better job of being its own song. The riff is still somewhat similar (to me, but I'm a big weird GALOOF), but let's just call that your STYLE instead.

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 11:36 am
by dubkitty
so you HAD to wait to have an opening until i left the Bay Area? fucker :mad: :lol: :lol: :lol: :hug:

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 12:19 pm
by behndy
Fuck The Kitty Action Plan Phase 12 UNDERWAY.

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 6:17 pm
by excane
behnderz - I think the path to go down is just move forward and put the whole mess behind you. I'm not one for digging on someone (unless they REALLY fucked me over) but sounds like she's got a LOT of other issues going on. No name calling, just part ways if she won't have a sit down and be done with it.

If YT can't do anything (worth a shot to send them a msg) then just cut bait and start a new channel. If you build it, they will come. ALWAYS.

:hug:

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 8:18 pm
by behndy
yah. it didn't end near as friendly as i'd hoped, but we have just been trying to cut ties completely. again, wish her the best of luck in whatever she pursues, these little snafu's are just that.... little. pho show, we already started a new YT channel (don't even want to fuck with any of the silliness) and i'm setting up a site so we'll either use that @whatevah for band email or the gmail acct i set up. going with a different name with Blood Party in it. 's all gooooooooooooood.

lulz..... i um..... just kinda said....... this whole thread was pointless. WOOT.

but it wasn't. 'cause all the woooooords and advicccccccce and happy touchy button tiiiiiiiiiiiiimes were MAD helpful. and pure awesome.

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 8:35 pm
by MSUsousaphone
Change it to Bloohd Party. :)*

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 9:22 pm
by D.o.S.
Or, if/when you're in New England, Fahkin Blood Pahty... Fahkin Rite Gai.

I'll play keytar.

It'll work.

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 9:24 pm
by behndy
oh gawd. keytar.

*poo-shits all over self*

guhhhhhhhhhh.

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 11:23 pm
by dubkitty
Blood Party Girls. this would be especially good if all the band members are male, a la Sun City Girls.

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sat Oct 06, 2012 11:46 pm
by behndy
lol. all good suggestions. i especially like Blood Party GrrLs.

we're sticking with just Blood Party though. it's grown on me. HARD.

Re: dealing with ex-bandmates

Posted: Sun Oct 07, 2012 4:53 am
by Waterpilot
Looks like I'm a couple days behind on this one... Good advice has been given and I can't add much to it. Good you're movin' on though. She is what she is an will do what she does. Not much you can do about it except smile and move on. Sounds like she may like to feed off the drama and not giving her any may cool things down quicker. If they haven't already. What counts here is you though. And hopefully, this will all work out for the better! :hug: