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Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2012 6:51 pm
by Achtane
Maybe he is an irritating asshole. Maybe not.
personally i find that music annoying but...
The way she talks to him makes her a bitch though.

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2012 7:54 pm
by Chankgeez
... and it's all just speculation from here.

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2012 8:07 pm
by Caesar
This is why my amp is always louder than my kids.

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2012 8:13 pm
by theavondon
Caesar wrote:This is why my amp is always louder than my kids.


Smart.

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2012 11:13 pm
by McSpunckle
You know, I remember a couple of times in the past (when I was about that kid's age) that I was playing some really noisy stuff, and my mom came in and, instead of belittling me, actually said "... are you doing something important? 'Cause that's kind of annoying." Which I replied to by chuckling and turning down the amp.

One time, when I had a Whammy pedal, I was playing with some really high pitched stuff (and I was using a slide... heh), and my dad came in with a bottle of WD40 and said "You're squeaking really bad." Which I found hilarious.

Maybe I'm completely blind to the plight of parents these days, but it really doesn't seem to me that it's appropriate to rant at your son about how much of a loser he is when you just want him to turn down the amp or study harder (which seems like it could be part of her frustration).

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2012 11:18 pm
by Fuzzy Fred
Is it just me, or does she kinda sound like she's reading off a script or some shit?

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Wed Mar 28, 2012 11:21 pm
by Chankgeez
Fuzzy Fred wrote:Is it just me, or does she kinda sound like she's reading off a script or some shit?


Yeah, I made her practice that speech in front of the mirror for days.

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 12:51 am
by devnulljp
dubkitty wrote:i guess i see the situation differently than many of you. for one thing, i'm far enough removed from adolescence that i don't automatically sympathize with the kid in a kid/parent conflict any more...
Oh come on, I'm sure you could be a bit more patronising in your assumptions there granddad.


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Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 1:12 am
by dubkitty
multiple posters have defaulted to their own personal histories/parental conflicts when commenting on this matter. it's not "patronizing" to point that out.

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 1:46 am
by Joe Gress
Heh, all I can say is that I'm super glad that my mom forced me to go and choose an instrument to learn when I was a teen, and then supported me, and still supports me in my endeavors as a musician today.

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 2:31 am
by veteransdaypoppy
Joe Gress wrote:Heh, all I can say is that I'm super glad that my mom forced me to go and choose an instrument to learn when I was a teen, and then supported me, and still supports me in my endeavors as a musician today.

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 3:57 am
by DarkAxel
Sonic Viking wrote:http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=BFe8TBhLeQQ#!

Idk how to embed videosssss. fuck


apparently, sometimes it's better if momma doesn't care

thanks, mom... the better of two evils, huh?

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 4:51 am
by big jilm
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owFKK88S41w[/youtube]

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 1:19 pm
by deadbeatriot
sonidero wrote:If he's over 18 and livin at home that's his fault...


is it really?

i'm sorry, but that's one of the dumbest things i've read in a while.

can you honestly say every 18 year old has the resources to go out, find an apartment (presumably without the help or references of his/her parents), find a job that would pay an 18 year old enough to afford said apartment plus utilities plus food and transportation, and support his/herself realistically?

Re: What a terrible mom

Posted: Thu Mar 29, 2012 1:31 pm
by dubkitty
who says every 18 year old is entitled to their own apartment, or to support themselves "realistically"? they can have roommates, or live with their gf/bfs, and live like young people do, which is to say hand to mouth rather than in a middle-class lifestyle they've done nothing to create for themselves. is the expectation now that people will leech off their parents until they can find equivalent accomodation on their own? and why on earth would you want to do that? i was out of my parents' house before i was 17.